My parents go along with my Sister, who they did name as their POA. However, the law firm is a college friend of my Sis's, and they are not even in Elder Law--they are in Intellectual Property/Copyrights.
Is it legal for my Sister to be in cahouts (sp?) with the lawyer, tell the lawyer what she wants to have happen with my parents, and then the lawyer calls up my parents and says what is going to happen? And then my parents go along with all of this crap?
I am the local 24/7 child, the other siblings are all out of state (very far!) and they are all getting to live their own lives, basically, and do not have the constant caregiving duties that I do. So, yes, I am jealous, but looking at the Big Picture, I feel that my parents are not getting accurate or appropriate legal advice--from someone who is being swayed by the POA.
How can I reverse this situation.