I am one of five children. I was not chosen to be my mother's caregiver. I love my mother. My mother loves me. My sister controls my mom's every move, so much so, that I am never privvy to information when my mother becomes ill or is admitted to a hospital. I am a frustrated and loving daughter. I visit my mom. I phone my mom. I take her meals, groceries, etc. My sister hogs my mom on every holiday, birthday, etc. And she is secretive. My sister needs money. I do not. I only want to share my mother's life in every way imaginable, yet I get blown off. Again, did I mention that my sister needs the money? What does a sibling of a caregiver do when the caregiver has the inheritance in mind? Not everyone can be the caregiver and my sister is evil. Help! Not all caregivers are good people.