Sibling has divorced several times, left new boyfriend and lives with a daughter. Daughter does not want her there anymore. Now, sibling wants to live with mom to "help" her. I never get help except the bare minimum when she feels like helping. Mom is confused and lonely so she says yes come live with me, and tells me the total opposite that she cannot live with her other daughter. I know for a fact she is using moms apt. to stay at, makes promises she knows she will not keep, and I am getting all the stress of this. Her ex husband owns the house, he paid her off and kindly kept my mom there as he is a decent and kind person. My mom refuses to move anywhere as I have begged and tried. I have no room for her at my home but am trying to possibly move and bring her with me in the near future. Until then, the manipulation and lying goes on at her apt. I take care of everything for mom, and she still wants to stay where she is, I just don;t know what to do anymore because I dont know who is lying to me though I think both sibling and mom are playing me for a fool sometimes. Should I not go there as often if the sibling moves in? I dread it now.