My one siblings family constantly borrows and manipulates my father and the sibling knows it. My fathers decision making skills are way off and he goes the opposite direction when we have decided to do business actions. How do i take charge and what happens when it blows up with the family? I live in a joining state and my father has me as POA and Executor. My brother hates it and tells his children I am going to committ my father and take his farm. The will is specific, but behind the scenes things are going on and my father lies to me about things he is doing. He has me do various financial things and all the hard work and then deceives me on certain things dealing with my brother and his family. I know my father makes very poor decisions and acts very immature, but I find out what he's up to and it is in direct opposition to what he tells me to do for him. He has blown over $18000.00 in the past three months and I can't figure out where it went.