Has anyone experienced a sibling who refuses to see an elderly parent because of issues with you, the caregiver/sibling??? My sister and I have always had a strained relationship. At this time, I'm living with Dad and providing all the support he needs. Sister rarely visits (only holidays) and contributes nothing. I know from what she has said to other family members that she blames me completely and has no intention of helping ME (but would help Dad; however does not even visit). She has never articulated any of this to me. If the tables were turned I would let nothing come between Dad and I. Has anyone experienced a sibling who is awol due to YOU, the caregiver??