We are not going to tell Mom she has to move until the day we move her or she will freak out. She has to understand why she has to move or she will blame us and never accept it. (When we moved her out of her house 8 years ago, she blamed us and claimed she could drive for at least 4 years after the move to IL. We could tell her she needs more help, but she will say she doesn't. Should we tell her the real reason? She lives in a world of denial. She knows her memory is bad, but not that it is so bad that a conversation or something she has done she remembers only for 3-5 minutes.