My brother thinks he a big shot POA! Won’t share any info! Does nothing for my mom! Her meds clothes when needed, etc etc visits her 5-10 minutes a day! Promises to take her to lunch! Screams at me (very hurtful) in front of her ( gets me going and I get mad at myself) he leaves and then she s upset for the day. Is the POA publis information?
Is Mom able to handle her own affairs when it comes to finances, no Dementia? If so, there is no need for a POA. If in her right mind, she can revoke brothers POA and assign someone else.
Again, if you feel he is abusive you are free to call APS and say so.
Do you mean he won't go get them or pay for them from her money?
He is required by law to use her money for her needs.
He is not obligated, nor is it legal to share information with anyone that mom would not have shared with in her right mind. Unless she is totally incapacitated she can direct him to give you and herself the financial information.
If he is not using her money to meet her needs you can contact Adult Protective Services and report financial exploitation of a vulnerable senior.
Withholding medication is neglect and that is criminal. APS would address this issue as well.