Husband has early Parkinsons and depression. He is pleased by the attention in the AL and has staff do everything that he is able to do alone or with help. For example, he is able to dress himself with minimal help, but will not if anyone offers to dress him. Now he wants to live in AL. Has said he does not want to live at home because there is no entertainment and he has to help with his activities of daily living. In several past stays in respite care, he has wanted to return home after a few weeks. He has always been indecisive. Do I keep him home with caretaking help part time or pay $84,000 a year for AL? After a few years, there will be little left for my care, should I need it. I can't find a compromise solution, and would love some input.