I have been going back and forth about whether or not to tell my mom that she has to move to a memory care unit. Her small studio apartment will be ready and I am picking up the key today. Her doctor says that I should tell her to let her get used to the idea. Mom always forgets the conversations we have had about this issue. I have strongly suggest it to her and one day she will say yes and the next day it's a no. I only have the weekend to tell her (or not). I feel so bad because I don't want to upset her. I am curious to know how others feel.