Most of the details are in the about myself page but I will summarize. My sister was healthy until about 52. She is 65 now. First she got MS, then became incontinent then got in two accidents where she tore her legs up. Dr told her if she would practice walking with walker she would walk again. She never tried. She was living in a family home with a drunk. She kept falling. He died. A few weeks later we found her lying on the floor in her own matter having a seizure for 7 hours. This resulted in me putting her in a nursing home in 2016. I just retired and am moving to SC to relax and finally enjoy life. I am 64. She has a clear mind, just as if she had no ailments. However she falls, has seizures, is incontinent and in a wheel chair. She cannot go to the bathroom alone amongst other stuff. She is constantly contacting me to take her to SC and let her live with me. I want my life but she keeps guilt tripping me. When I visit I see her difficulties and she won’t let up with me. I think she will just lose hope and die. I offered getting her into a facility in SC near me and she could visit once and awhile at my house. She is also overweight 220 vs my 140 lbs. Am I wrong to leave her in nursing home? What do I do about her begging me?