My sister cares for my dad at home. Carers call 4 times a day to look after his continence needs and assist him to and from bed, as his mobility is very bad. I live nearby and spend every Sunday with him and cook dinner for him after work 3 days a week. He sleeps well at night but my sister has asked me to stay some nights as she sleeps with one eye open just in case something happened. The problem is my sister has huge anger issues and a slight drink problem. It's very hard for me to be around her without getting stressed or upset. As a result, staying the night for me would be awful but I feel guilty about it too. Not sure what to do. Thank you.
Good luck!
It’s just impossible to help without a better idea of everyone’s role in this. For example, if your father 'sleeps well at night', perhaps your sister's own sleeping problems relate to the alcohol, which can mean you go to sleep quickly but then are awake a long time in the night.