Everyone in the extended family live near my mother. Nobody visits at all. I pay someone to take her out weekly for lunch. I am saddened she is not visited and tired of doing everything long distance. I do everything, the financials, medical, and will be emptying and selling her house next year. After a recent er visit, and no siblings could meet her at the hospital, my frustration level peaked. I'd like to move her near me but don't know how to even bring up the subject. Or do I just DO IT? Any input is appreciated.