Husband suffered severe stroke 4 years ago & I am his sole care giver.
Two kids live on my property & help me with him.
My youngest child has only visited one time in 4 years & seldom calls (says too busy) & no help. Lives 50 miles away.
My oldest is almost bedridden from obesity but calls every day.
I have a living trust made to divide everything in 4.
Now feel the two that do not help should get less.
How much less should I leave them?