My mom is 83. She lives in the house me and my hubby own while we stay in a temporary mobile home right next door under a temporary health permit. She is disabled and must use a walker. She can't do much in the way of housework but she can still drive. She also has a gambling problem. She has and continues to blow thousands of dollars a year at the casino but then complains about not having the money to do other things (like have her cats groomed once a year for $160). I feel like I shouldn't be obligated to help her financially under these circumstances. Am I wrong?