She has dementia and can no longer walk, they do get her up a few times a day to walk the halls, but other than that, she is pretty much in the wheelchair all day. Her ankles are very swollen and when I tried to rub them, she complained they hurt when I touched them. I asked the nurse and she said a Dr told her that was more "cosmetic" and I should not worry, but I am. I KNOW there is something wrong and I can't seem to get them to take me seriously. I have asked them to set up an appt with the visiting DR and give me his analysis of her situation and what can be done. What else to you suggest I do? I'm very worried - I know this is not "cosmetic". Thank you.