I appreciate this forum so much. I need your thoughts on this. My mother is 94 and my father is 92 (he will be 93 in March) and they are both in the same nursing home. My dad was put on hospice yesterday. This is a good thing because he is in a lot of pain and hospice can make him more comfortable.
I feel strange asking this question, but my dad probably doesn't have long to live. My question is if my mother should attend his funeral? She has Alzheimer's and is in a wheelchair. She can be very mean and is sometimes combative. There are days that she says dad is either her son or her brother.