Shala9, my cousin is a nurse in an assisted living place and she said none of them like to take a shower. They sometimes fight you over it because they don't like to be cold. After we realized that my mother-inlaw wasn't waiting for the water to warm up, I started getting it going for her while she was undressing.
Hi Lizziebee57. I hope things are going well for you. I wanted to share an article that one of our experts have on our site regarding this very subject.
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/elderly-parents-who-wont-shower-or-change-clothes-133877.htm
I wish you the best.
AgingCare.com Team