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I would ask what meds she is being given...does anything have the side affect of causing her to sleep. They may be giving her something to sedate her. I would also find out from the doctor's what the prognosis is. Then you can make decisions based on what your mom would want and what her quality of life is going to be. From my experience nursing homes are not forthcoming with info, you have to ask and push for answers. So don't be afraid to go to whomever you have to in order to get answers.
As a former ICU nurse I can tell you that patients usually "wake up" after being taken off sedation unless there has been some damage done to the brain. At 84, it wouldn't take much to sedate your mom...my mom is 84 and something as simple as a benadryl will knock her out for hours. I hope you find answers and that your mom recovers. I know what you are going through...the decisions for my mom rests on my shoulders as well. Praying for you and your mom.
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I agree with Spooky...get a 2nd and 3rd opinion...I did.
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I would get a second opinion,and I am wondering if they induced the coma with the sedation? my dad was like that before he passed,but only for a few days.you need answers.♥
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My mom died like that. After the hospice released her she fell into either a deep sleep or a coma 2 days later...it was probably a coma...and it was my mom's time.
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What are the docs telling you about your mom's condition? Is she asleep or is she in a coma? What do THEY expect in terms of recovery? If you're not getting clear answers, talk to the social worker for the NH; then the patient advocate. You want to know if this is time to bring in hospice or palliative care, or are they expecting a recovery with some quality of life. So sorry for your troubles and pain. Hugs, Barbara
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