My husband and I finally moved out of my MIL'S house. She is a very controlling, manipulating women. IN the past 2 yrs My husband and I took care of all her needs. Fixing up her house, 3 meals a day plus snacks etc.... doctors visits. The last straw is when she made induindos about stealing from her. We did give up livesMy husband and I just could not do enough for her. to take care of her. In the past 2yrs she has changed her will 4 times... before that she changed it 3 or 4 times. Any time she gets done with people she takes them out. Any time someone is overly nice puts them in. It is the craziest thing I have ever seen. I did not want to leave on bad terms, but its hard not to be aggravated with her. Her mood changes day to day. My nephew is taking care of her now. I am wondering if she has dementia or is just coniving, mean, mentally ill.