I was supposed to wake my mother for church today, but overslept. Strangely I did set the alarm to get up, and according to my husband I _did_ get up. He then went back to sleep and I have no recollection _at all_ what I did. Probably just shut off the alarm and went back to bed myself. But I did not wake my mother up. Now she's at church, her phone is shut off, and I swear that she's fuming. I'm terrified of her anger, even though I'm an independent adult. She uses phrases like "You never care about anything," and "You always forget to do something except when it's your own need." She also accuses me of lying. Basically nothing I say will pacify her. We've had a meltdown recently and things are still very tense, and now I did this again. Tiny things escalate to the point of huge fights, and I'm depressed and anxious about another one coming. I can't stand up for myself without snapping, which makes it worse. I end up raising my voice because I'm scared. Does anyone have that happen to them? How do you deal? I feel like I'm loosing my memory from stress, and I'm way to young for this (under 30).