After my mother had a bowel obstruction surgery - she had a stroke and now has aphasia. she knows what she is saying and is frustrated - but we were working through it. She had lived alone - and the doctor said she needs assisted living and as she was doing so well physically she didn't need a residential nursing home. We had 3 days to find a place and thougth we found the best fit. We moved her yesterday - and although she was upset with it - she seemed to accept it. This morning I received a call - she was very angry and had packed all of her things. My daugher called me and said she was freaking out. By the time we got there - she had gone through the home screamed at everyone and started throwing things. She refused to take her meds or eat. She also has a bladder infection - we were finally able to calm her down a little and she did take her antibiotic - but I am just not sure how to handle this. There really has been very little direction from rehab - and we just got in the assisted living. I am afraid they are going to ask her to leave. I should also say - she was not very kind before the stroke and could say some very hurtful things to people. I just need some direction on how to help her transition. I feel like I have a 130lb 4 year old.