I am his caregiver 24/7 I never get a break. My brother and sister will be leaving from the same town to the same funeral. I don't want to have to do it alone. The whole thing, in the car out of the car the bathing the pooping the peeing. The constant .... well y'all know. I want to put him in Respite Care while we go or have THEM take him and keep him in THEIR hotel room with THEIR wife/husbands who can help with his care. instead of ME alone doing it. Is that too much to ask? Am I being unreasonable?