I know this sounds daft considering I know that the dementia is the cause of her hallucinations but sometimes the things she says scare me. For example 2 nights ago she woke me up at 4 am because there was a "man in a black cloak in her room" so as usual I go in and check for burglars and all, all clear so I put her back to bed and she asks me to stay while she falls asleep. Im sat on her bed and I say yeah sure nan it's just a bad dream don't worry and she said. For gods sake lily he's got his arm around you, stop acting like you can't see him. It really scared me. I know it's just the dementia but it does scares me. Does anyone else ever get scared by the things they say?