She says she is in pain all the time, but I have dropped in after she said she was going back to bed and she is up and about. She says she is in pain I am not sure how much more recently. She definitely tries everything to get us to visit. She is in IL and has had them call an ambulance twice in 3 days. The 2nd time she did not go to the hospital. What can we do? It is hard to listen to, but we can't go over all the time we find it makes things worse.