I have been dealing with caregiver burnout doing this for 7 years now. I have POA for my mother and when I mention to her and my son that she needs to go to an ALF for additional help for her Dementia, COPD, DIABETES and walking prolems, she adamantly refuses to leave her home and tells me that I am trying to get rid of her. Her doc says that she could live to be 100 years old and I am already 65. After she passes I will have no place to live as her house is in reverse mortgage. I found an apartment and a part time job and have agreed to start working this month. I also move on my own November 7th, next month. My son and his wife and baby live here in her house with us and argue constantly at each other and at me blaming me for possible breakup of their marriage. They make me feel so guilty and my son swears that if I do anything like remove my mother from the home, he will never speak to me again nor let me see my grandaughter. I can no longer live under these stressful conditions. Do you think I did the right thing? I worry they won't take good care of my mother but I feel it will be a good wake up call, for them to walk in my shoes. Thank you for your help and God Bless you all.