Last time I was out of town. I had a Personal Support Worker take her to a coffee shop so he could pick her up for the weekend. THEY WAITED 2 hours. We tried to call/text: nothing. He FINALLY shows up. THEN we stated to drop her off at the same place at 4pm. He never arrived. We waited 30 minutes. called / text NOTHING. My Brother is a jerk.
We went back to the same place 2 times. We called the Police. They went with us to the coffee shop. he finally showed up at 7pm.
Police said since she has her own FREE WILL to go with him. nothing we can do. So now have to find an AGING LAWYER in Missouri to get full and legal custody.
Mom thinks she is going away to move in with my brother. but this will not happen. She has dementia. He doesn't have the money, resources or space. I do what I can. She sometimes gets very angry and violent against me; ME being the bad guy.
I take her 3-times a week to a Seniors Centre and she loves it. She hardly remembers any conversations with him. She loves it there. gets to do crafts and dance :)
SO my question; what legal advice or anyone with this scenario?
He texted me a threatening email the other day.
He was slated to come by next weekend. I asked him the day/time.
And again he states "I will get there when I get there"
SO I told him the visit is off.
He is not even coming to see HER. he has a concert to go to in my town.
I told him if he takes her HE is responsible for everything: IE: babysitting, watching her etc
He said ''Listen. YOU are the caregiver. I NOT coming to babysit her. just a visit"
He wants to come to MY HOUSE, but I will not let him in. he has a history of scams, taking money from family etc
He only wants to accommodate HIMSELF
I told him forget it then. And this week I go to a lawyer to get all the legal matter done.
He then wrote "Good luck with whats about to happen to you with her"
I am so emotionally drained. I try my best. I think I should charge him with threatening me.