My mom is 85 and has had the same caregiver for the past 18 years, they are friends. I have been caring for my mom during the day while he is at work as I work from my home, I don't like the way he treats me, he doesn't include me in moms things, and I feel he is threatened by our relationship. I have had run ins with him in the past, he is very argumentive and rude - but mom is so manipulated by what he says, that I am concerned I won't stand a chance of getting her. He gets paid by the state to care for her. I just want to know what rights do I have if any as her legal daughter even if he is the caregiver.
Any suggestions is appreciated