We have been trying to get medication to reduce his anxiety but doctor reluctant to increase dosage. He is 88 with many health issues. From the minute he wakes up he starts phone calls demanding to go home. He makes nasty threats. He phoned police yesterday demanding they take him home. We get over 20 calls a day. Talking on phone or through window is not working. We can’t figure out if it is his hearing aid (batteries have been replace often) or he doesn’t understand. Or doesn’t want to understand. We have sent him letters and emails.
We have been trying to figure out how to safely look after him if he returns to his house. The stress is over the top for everyone. Any thoughts........?