She had a network of friends and activities before moving in with me. Now she refuses to go anywhere but complains about just staying home and sitting and watching tv. I really don't have time to be a full time social director and to be the running buddy...since I have regular family responsibilities. I have taken her to 2 senior centers and her church where she doesn't want to be involved in anything even though when she lived on her own she was very involved. Our park district has a marvelous senior group that goes out a lot. It's been almost 2 years and still she resists any involvement in outside social anything. I've definitely cut back to one errand day a week with her and often one other day to go out to a restaurant each week. And that is pushing it for me. I absolutely cannot let her tag along all the time because she gets on the nerves of everyone. She is able to get out and there is transportation, but she won't go. So how can I encourage her to get out and about or is this just a lost cause and I should just detach from the complaining.