My mom had a stoke a year ago and she is paralyzed on the right side. I took on the responsiblity of her care and it's more work than I thought. I found open sores on her and called the ambulance, she refuses to go and they can't make my mom go, it's called kidnapping. My mom has bed sores because she refuse to move on her side and she refuses to allow me to clean her completely. She has run house, calls doctors away and refuse aides to touch her. I want to place her in a nursing home, she told me to let her die.