My boyfriend's dad has a very short life expectancy, 3 doctors have suggested he go on hospice. His wife doesn't want that because it will take attention away from her also her behavior is making the doctor evaluate her compentcy . The rest of the family is in denial about how serious his condition is and honestly he made mistakes in the past and they treat him horrible. The only person he really talks to is me. The social worker suggested he get a durable power of attorney. He agreed with her and wants me to be it. What actually would be my responsibilities? And would I be able then to get him the help he needs.