Mom died almost two months ago. I'm stressed from all the things you need to do when someone dies. I'm the executor of estate. Plus I have to deal with difficult brother, Maybe for closing on commercial property. Husband says I know your having hard time. If I say I'm stress he says take bubble bath. But there is complete disconnect about how hard thus is for me. It was always you take care of your mother and I'll take care of my father. He was never good at giving me the emotional support I need. He is a caring person. He told me I'm doing a great job handling all the stuff. I'd rather hear that I understand how hard this is. But it won't take forever. Make sure you take brakes to do something enjoyable. But I would have to tell him to say stuff like that. So it wouldn't mean much.