I found out that it's gonna be a few more weeks before Grandma can come live with me. Apparently the director of the ALF didn't receive the notice in the mail about taking Grandma out of there (yeah, sure). This time it was sent certified mail. The family will be following up tomorrow to make sure it was received.
Is it a legal thing about her medications or a financial thing (does the ALF want to make sure they don't lose money on her room?). I don't see what the problem is. She's allowed to go for day visits, so I don't know why she couldn't come "visit" for a month. I thought I'd check here before asking the director.
By the way, it would be impossible for me to bring Grandma home everyday for a few hours. It's just too much, you know? I think it would be too emotionially hard for her anyway.