He doesn't care about her. My mother is 96 and in full blown dementia. She is currently in an expensive ($7000/mo) facility. She has had several falls. The last caused injuries. My brother has complained repeatedly about how much it costs to keep her in this place; now he has gone faurther and hired "sitters" b/c the facility doesn't have the services to keep her otherwise. This is 12 hrs/day @ $20/hr 7 days a week. I want him to move her to a less expensive place. He is very hostile to me and won't discuss it. She really doesn't know where she is. Do I have to hire an attorney, and if I do, will her estate pay the costs?