My Aunt is 80 and afflicted with severe Parkinsons. She sits in her wheelchair and urinates and defecates on herself, and cannot move or eat without help. She has about 20K a year income and owns her own home, but is just about out of money for homecare (which may not matter because her providers are fed up with her poor treatment).
The family wants her to sell her home and move into a nursing home - she refuses. At some point in the next few months she will be out of money, and will demand that her relations get on an airplane and come and take care of her. What to do? If someone helps her for a few weeks, she will still refuse to sell, continually call 911 for her routine needs, and make life miserable for everyone.