Hi all. I need some help. My mom was dx w/ dementia last year - mainly short term memory, she was actually doing okay, but very repetitive and had some mounting anxiety. She also has MS. She fell 3 times in a week in Dec. Discovered she had a UTI. Begged the doctors for help, got nowhere. On Feb 5, she fell and fractured her femur. Was in ER for 24 hrs then transferred out to a SNF. She had another UTI at that time. She has essentially had them non stop since. She gets crazy vicious, yells, screams, hallucinates, is delusional, etc. Last week, the SNF decided she was competent, sent her home AMA, never called me. They emailed me at work 15 mins before 5 and I wasn't in my office. I couldn't get any help. Finally got her to the ER on Wed night, as she can't walk or stand, and I can't lift her. She was there until Sunday. Found a board and care, she blew out because she began trying to break the tv, pulling tablecloth off, etc. Back to the ER on Monday. They finally admitted her under a psych hold. She did test pos for a UTI. So she has literally had one for 6 months straight, and been in this angry, screaming mode. I keep begging the docs to do something. I think it is possible that she may have had a stroke at one point during an acting out episode. I guess my question is, any thoughts, advice, anything? I know in my heart something is wrong. Her decline is way, way too fast.