I am trying to keep my mother in her home. I live with her but am getting to the point where it's not manageable by myself anymore. Her physical care is easy but the mental and emotional is too much. I have caregivers come while I am at work, part time, and other times so I can do the shopping, etc. My sister comes about once a month or so to give me a break for a couple nights. All of this helps but it's still too much after 7 years. Mom has declined a lot in the past 3 years. She has dementia and Parkinson's, both having taken a turn for the worse in the past 9 months. She is still aware of her decline but no idea how bad. She is continent and still dresses and showers by herself with a little help. I feel like a live-in or a memory care facility is the next step and I am not emotionally ready to put her in a facility.