I was going to take Mom out of the nursing home as her money runs out in one year, I am the POA. She started falling and I changed my mind. She fell 6 times in 3 weeks, and now is wheelchair bound. My sister who lives on the other coast and has done little the last 6 years, has disowned me and says I scammed Mom and her since I didn't take her to live with me. She is also fecal incontinent, but the falls were really the reason. Now I cry every day, and can't let go of the guilt, even though intellectually I know it is a waste. I have done so much for my mother, but just can't get over it. I can't afford therapy. I think that if I bring her here, I can stop the crying. Am I realistic to think I can take care of her? I can hire a health aide with her money that she would have spent on the assisted living. Any reaching out to me would be appreciated.