I didn't see anything wrong with this and was flabbergasted when I was blistered, via email, for doing this, told it was "none of my business", that the letters were between mom, husband (#1) and her. Of course she copied the other siblings with this blast.
I have not been sharing anything IN the letters with other family members or anyone else.
So, after sister's last visit, I discovered ALL of the letters are missing (including those in the safety deposit box). I am feeling undone re all this. Mom and I have been depressed, upset (me-angry, hurt).
This has been a really nice thing for mom to have these letters read to her (her eyesight is very, very poor) as they are sooo very loving, adoring and it really lifts her.
I didn't even ask for the letters to be returned but asked if she would copy them so I could continue reading them. No go..........
I am feeling confused and don't see how this could be a bad, wrong thing.....I need another perspective, feedback. cadams