Logically, I understand death and dying are part of life. I just feel so sad and at times guilty that I'm enjoying my life while my sweet 89-year old momma spends her days in a memory care unit. She is totally aware that she moved to live close to me and lights up with my visits. I try to visit her most days and surprise her with treats and sometimes a glass of wine. She's definitely declining and the caregivers are preparing me for the inevitable. (She's in hospice. ) What kinds of things do you do and think about to help cope with similar feelings?