We have a distant relative currently living in an assisted living facility in another state and we are looking to move her to closer to us. It looks like we are going to end up being her health care proxy and surrogate decision maker bc there is no other living family to assist her. She currently lives in assisted living and we are not clear on how she is paying for this. According to her, she has a long term care policy that pays for the residence and services she gets now. But we are unaware of what it covers and the amount it covers. Please advise on questions we need to ask and how we become the official proxy for her.