I'm having concerns over the care my mom is receiving. She has been on a number of pain medications for many many years. She takes them all before she is due for refills, & her doctor has no problem with prescribing more in between that she then pays full price out-of-pocket for. According to her they have never discussed long term pain management options. I just can't see this as being healthy or moral. Is there any way I could force her to allow me into an appointment or speak with him on my own, without having to declare her incompetent?