I'm still a bit confused about this and I've been at it almost 1-1/2 years. Am I supposed to be available 24/7 as guardian? My attorney says 'no' but it seems more often than not, I am expected to be even though my dad doesn't live with me. I don't feel like I'm having much of a life lately and my life is becoming more and more consumed by my dad which is a problem for me. I am losing sight of myself.