My father is getting to the point that something needs to be done..I'm his sole caregiver..I have a sister but she does nothing but call him every day..He constantly complains about, usually me..we've never been close..Now just about everything he touches, he ends up breaking..hearing aid..phone..AC thermostat, to name a few..And ALLWAYS blames me..When he talks to his daughter he's constantly lieing or execrating..I can hear him.She's not around, nor does she really know him.. Last time she lived around him was in high school..She's 66 now. So I'm sure she has no idea what kind of a pathological liar he really is..OE maybe she doesn't care. She doesn't share the burden and the sarcasm from him on a rail basis..He needs to be elsewhere.. Either in a retirement facility or with her..She would never take him nor agree to put him anywhere.. She has her motives for agreeing with everything he says..So I can't discuss it with her..As long as I'm doing everything and going through h*ll,she's fine..But she'll show up,before he gets cold,when he takes his last breath..I don't know how much more I can tolerate..Can I put him somewhere without involving her?..I'm desperate!!!