My nephew lives with my mothher she is 85 he is 33. He hasn't had a job for several years. He sleeps all day and plays video games all night. When he goes out to smoke he friends the stray cats. They now have 3 cats in the house and one on the proch. Even worse than the cats my mother has been in the overdraft for 3 years in the amount of around 10 thousand dollars. Some of her children tried to have an intervention boy what a mess. She sided with the nephew. Her blood pressure is running 219 over 98 and her a1c is to high her bllod sugar stays around 290. They eat a lot of fast food they purchase with her credit card. What do we need to do? She is mad at the 3 sisters who tried to interevene and the nephew said you can't make me move out.