My father has late stage Alzheimer's, and my mother is his mentally and physically exhausted caregiver, with health issues of her own. My siblings and I have put a deposit on an ALF, but we are making no progress in convincing my mother that she needs to move. She keeps coming up with reasons why she doesn't want to move - so we cannot get her to make that first step in the moving process. We have given up. We need the assistance of a professional who can convince her that this is the best thing for both of them. Does anyone have any direction for us? P.S. My parents are in Phila, and all the kids are living in different states across the country, which makes things even more complicated.