Well my husband got out of hospital after the pneumonia and sepsis. One son came while he was in hospital came from California. He was helpful to a degree. He left daughter from Califoria came. All hell broke loose. She decided to hire someone to take my husband out a couple of hours a couple of days a week. She said its only $20 an hour. I told her I don't have $120 a week for someone to take your father out for a couple of hours. She said well it looks like your house has all new furniture so that's more important then dad! I told her I am getting the stuff we need now because when her father passes I lose one ss check and life will be tight for me. She said we are just trying to help. Well they are not. Then she said if we do this it will stop the text and e mails from you telling us how he is? That is when I said "don't worry I would not dream of bothering you again like that"...They e mail and ask how he is. I tell them..not too good but ok. I told them the little money I have and it is little will have to last me the rest of my life if a nursing home doesnt take it first. What would you do in this situation. I have reached the end of my rope with taking care of him and fighting with them.