My mom's ashes were sent to me for disposition but then I got arrested and in jail while the probate lawyer had gone and did inventory on my house. So now I'm out of jail I want them back but she's reluctant to give them to me because my sister wants them now. My sister had the cremains done and signed the papers that I was to receive them for disposition but now she's making it hard on me.
I'm sorry that you and your family are having so many troubles all at once. Be as gentle as you can on yourself, and I hope you'll pull through.