My Mom is such a pain, she now wants to go private pay. She doesn't have any family there, I am in Seattle. She says she tired of the agency lying to her, but I feel they have to lie because after the caregiver is with her for 4 days most of them don't want to come back. I am so tried of her, I feel like giving up my POA to my sister in law. I work full time and receive a phone call from her every night when I get home, I take care of all of her business from here on my days off. I found out if you go private you must get a Federal Employment ID number, you have to pay unemployment tax, workers compensation, and also should carry Liability insurance. I never show her how I feel I always keep calm, but I am not happy with her decisions, she gave 30,000 dollars to my sisters friend, she paid 1500 to fix a caregivers teeth. Both decisions were hers and they were her choice, but as you can see she isn't thinking 100 percent.