After 2 years of catering to mother at assisted living, I'm burned out & have pulled back on my visits & involvement. The problem now is, mother wants to see a specialist, (multiple ongoing visits) & I'm not willing to go with her. (Instead, I prepay her rides with a professional transport company). She claims to be "so nervous" that someone has to go with her every time. (She's already taking klonopin). I refused to go with her, explained why. The facility had a lady (on staff) go with her, but it's been 3 trips already. Now the nurse says that I should go, (likely 4 more trips), & I will not go. It's unsettling to me, cuz I feel they didn't care about my situation pertaining to my refusal. Yet I do everything reasonable that I can, & I'm standing my ground. It seems unfair to be questioned about it repeatedly though, am I expecting too much? Thank you all for sharing your experience & wisdom.